Dating and Relationship Q&A with my Psychologist Husband!

My husband, Joseph, is a clinical psychologist. If you're into astrology, he's also a Capricorn. That is to say— he is a VERY practical guy.

He views social media and content creation as "conceptual work"... i.e. doesn't make money and therefore is a waste of time.

I however, love it! I see social media as a powerful channel that allows me to reach and help more people than I ever could through one-on-one coaching.

Because he loves me, he is supportive of my passions and ambitions, even if he questions their ROI.

I recently tested the limits of his love, requesting he go "LIVE" with me on Instagram to answer people's questions about dating and relationships.

This is his favorite topic in his therapeutic practice, and we often collaborate together, working with couples and single folks to offer both a male and female perspective on how to find and maintain a healthy, happy relationship.

To my surprise, even through it was WAY out of his comfort zone, he said yes!

We livestreamed on Instagram last weekend and answered tons of questions, including:

  • My relationship feels harder than it should be… I know relationships are supposed to be hard at times, but how do I know if it’s just not a right fit and I should end it?

  • I love my wife, but lately I find myself feeling very drawn to another woman. I am not going to cheat, and I feel guilty even having the desire… but I could use some help on what I should do about my feelings and how to increase my attraction to my wife.

  • I do SO much for our family but I don’t feel appreciated. I can feel resentment building. Help!

  • How do you overcome defensiveness in arguments when you are angry?

  • When dating, do quality guys get turned off if you have sex too soon?

  • I’ve been dating a guy for a long time, years. But he won’t propose to me. What should I do?

  • What should you do when your parents don't like your partner?

I posted the recording of the livestream here. I hope you have/find a partner who loves, compromises and sacrifices as much as mine does for me!

Much love,